Reverend Manful has urged people to learn from their past mistakes and disappointments without allowing regret to control their present lives or future decisions.
Speaking on Plan B FM’s Nyansapo Fie programme, hosted by Akosua Gyamfua, Rev. Manful was discussing the topic “Dealing with Regret.”
He explained that, from a biblical perspective, God has given human beings the freedom to make choices and decisions, but those choices can sometimes have consequences that result in disappointment, guilt and regret.
According to him, while regret is often rooted in the past, failing to deal with it properly can negatively affect a person’s emotional well-being and future.
Rev. Manful noted that regret can arise from various aspects of life, including relationships, personal decisions and experiences. He said people may regret trusting individuals who later disappoint them or making decisions they eventually realise were wrong.
Citing Philippians 3:13, he encouraged listeners to learn from their past rather than remain trapped by it.
He stressed that people must acknowledge their mistakes, draw lessons from their experiences and work towards healing instead of allowing past failures to define their lives.
Rev. Manful also highlighted parenting as an area where people can experience regret later in life.
He said some parents may regret how they raised or disciplined their children, while others may regret making major decisions, including career choices, on behalf of their children.
He further identified financial mistakes, favouritism and harsh punishment as decisions that could create lasting resentment, fuel sibling rivalry and damage family relationships.
He therefore urged parents to be intentional and thoughtful in the way they train, discipline and guide their children.
Turning his attention to students, Rev. Manful cautioned against negative peer influence and procrastination.
He advised students not to be deceived by friends who claim they are not studying when, in reality, they may be preparing seriously for examinations.
He explained that following such peers and neglecting one’s studies could eventually lead to failure and regret.
He also urged students to avoid procrastination by completing important tasks on time rather than postponing them until opportunities are lost.
Rev. Manful concluded by encouraging listeners to be more mindful of the choices they make, stressing that today’s decisions can become tomorrow’s regrets.
He said although regret is a natural part of life, it should not become a permanent prison, adding that the past cannot be changed but the lessons from it can help people make better decisions in the future.
By: Anita Arthur
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