“Hold Your Tongue: THINK Before You Speak” – Islamic Cleric

Muhammad Hussain Acquah, a renowned educator and religious leader, Headteacher of T.I. Ahmadiyya Basic School in Tema and National Preaching Secretary of Ansarullah, Ghana, has shared a powerful insight on the need to “THINK” before speaking to avoid defensive mechanisms.

In an interview with Odiamono Kwaku Gyimah on Plan B FM’s Nyansapɔ Fie show, he said, “Words of affirmation, apology, and gratitude are the currency of healthy relationships,” highlighting the importance of positive communication in nurturing and sustaining relationships.

He added, “Gossip and criticism are the toxins that poison them,” suggesting that negative communication can be detrimental to relationships.

He referenced the “THINK” acronym as a framework for evaluating thoughts or actions:

– T: Is it True?
– H: Is it Healthy?
– I: Is it Inspiring?
– N: Is it Necessary?
– K: Is it Kind?

This model encourages critical thinking and mindful communication. “By applying these criteria, you can assess whether your words or actions are positive, constructive, and respectful.”

Prophet Isaac Asante, Head Pastor of Rhema Prayer Ministry, referenced a concept suggesting that our words have creative power, similar to the idea that God’s words brought creation into being. This idea is rooted in various spiritual and philosophical traditions.

“The phrase ‘death and life are in the power of the tongue’ captures a similar notion, highlighting the impact of our words on ourselves and others.

”By choosing our words carefully, we can:

– Uplift and inspire
– Harm or heal
– Create positive or negative outcomes.

This perspective encourages mindful communication, emphasising the importance of considering the potential effects of our words.”

Mary Bright Abelenma Coffie, a fashion designer, youth counsellor, and Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) expert, marvelled at the great power possessed by one of the tiniest human parts, the tongue, which even the head, brain, heart, and legs lack. She advised, “First, give whatever message your eyes spot to the brain to process it for mindful communication. Stop belittling yourself with your tongue. Create your world with your tongue and see yourself in your preferred world created with your tongue. Those who deliberately curse others with their powerful gift should be mindful and refrain from causing harm.”

By: Longman/Planbfmonline.com