Rev. Benjamin Oppong, Head Pastor of Mount Horeb Victorious Church, has expressed his opposition to 50-50 power sharing in relationships.
In an interview with Nana Asabea on Plan B FM’s ‘Nyansapɔ Fie’, Rev. Oppong cited the biblical creation story, arguing that man, created in God’s image, possesses more authority in decision-making.
Rev. Oppong emphasized partnership and mutual understanding, referencing Ecclesiastes 4:12. Rather than a strict 50-50 split, he suggested one partner ceding decision-making authority to the other.
Mohammed Hussain Acquah, Ansarullah Preaching Secretary of Ghana, offered an Islamic perspective. He cited the Holy Quran (Chapter 16, Verse 36), explaining that the husband is seen as leader and provider, while the wife is a partner and helper.
Acquah emphasized mutual respect, referencing the Prophet Muhammad’s (SAW) teachings. He noted that managing power in marriages requires balance, collaboration, commitment, love, effort, patience, and prioritizing the relationship.
Mary Bright Coffie, a fashion designer, counsellor, and Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) practitioner, linked relationship management to God. She emphasized that spouses walking in God’s righteousness can effectively manage power.
Coffie noted that managing power is a managerial responsibility, not control. She encouraged spouses to view themselves as coaches, working together to achieve a common goal. By sharing responsibilities and prioritizing mutual support, couples can build stronger, more harmonious relationships.
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