Plan B Fm’s family, relationship, and lifestyle show dubbed NYANSAPO FIE, hosted by Dr. Michael Asenso deliberated on the topic “Qualities of a Good Leader” to another perspective level of a good leader/husband or wife in marriages in various homes across the country.
A husband is considered the leader of the family and must respect his wife’s boundaries and becomes a better husband because it allows him to show her that he cares about what she wants.
It shows his wife that he wants to be a part of her life and not just along for a ride.
If a husband knows his wife’s boundaries and doesn’t respect them, then he is not treating his wife with the love and respect she deserves. A good husband will always try to understand and respect his wife’s needs, desires, and feelings.
A good husband who respects his wife’s boundaries will have a happy marriage because he is willing to do everything in his power for her happiness. This means that he does things for her without being asked or expected to do them. He does this because he loves her very much and wants the best for her happiness.
When a husband respects his wife’s boundaries, he has more confidence in himself and their relationship as husband and wife.
He knows that he has done everything within his power to ensure that both parties are always happy together in their life together likewise a good wife.
Rev Emmanuel Aning in his contribution said Integrity is one of the most important qualities in a good husband because it builds trust between him and his wife.
“If she knows he has her best interests at heart and is willing to do whatever it takes to make her happy, she will feel secure in their relationship and also in their future together as parents raising their children together rather than as two separate entities living side by side but not always working together toward a common goal of raising healthy children who will grow up to be happy, well-adjusted, and successful adults” he stated
Mary Bright (Aunty Mary) a guest on the show said a good husband is someone who can support his family.
“This means that he has a regular income and a savings account and doesn’t spend more than he earns. It also means that he invests time and effort to take care of his finances so that he can make sure that his family is taken care of likewise a good wife”
Good husbands are financially responsible because they know how much money they need to live on each month, and they make sure they only spend what they have in their budget.
They don’t go over their budget or fall behind on their bills – they’re careful with their money so as not to endanger their family or make them feel insecure about their financial situation.
She said affection is a quality that many people want in their partner.
Affection can be shown in many different ways, but it’s important to remember that not all affection is the same. Some affection is better than others, and some types of affection are more desirable than others.
Affection isn’t always synonymous with sex. Sex with a spouse can be a wonderful thing, but it’s not necessarily what makes him his wife’s best friend and confidant. A good husband should be able to show affection without resorting to sex.
A husband who shows his wife affection has many advantages:
She will feel safe and secure when she is around him, He makes her feel loved and valued as an individual, and he can help her with any problems or questions that may arise in their relationship (even if they don’t have the answers).
Madam Kessewaa Nortey (Lady Kessewaa) also said a good husband likewise a good wife understands that his wife has her problems, worries, and feelings, and he respects her enough to let her be herself. He knows that his wife isn’t a second-class citizen to him but an equal partner in their relationship.
Also, he doesn’t expect his wife to be perfect or to always do everything right. Instead, he recognizes the fact that she’s just as much a human being as he is- and treats her accordingly.
She said a good husband supports his wife in everything she does. He is happy for her when she’s doing well and doesn’t get jealous or angry when she succeeds or gets lucky on her own.
He helps out around the house without being asked and takes care of himself so that he can take care of his family too!
Additionally, he also supports his wife’s dreams and ambitions, no matter how big they are or how small they may seem. He’ll encourage her to pursue them, even though she may have to work harder or take risks to achieve them.
She said a good husband communicates effectively with his wife in several ways.
First, he listens to her when she talks. A good husband knows that his wife has a lot on her mind and is worried about things like whether or not the children are doing their homework and when dinner will be ready.
He makes a point of listening to her when she talks about these things.
Second, he doesn’t interrupt her. A good husband knows that he can always ask questions later if he doesn’t understand what she’s saying.
Third, he asks her questions about what she’s saying so that he can better understand what she means.
This also shows that he cares enough to want more information from her so they can work together as a team instead of working against each other.
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