The death of a parent can leave children emotionally vulnerable, disrupt their sense of security and affect their behaviour at home and school, Rev. Benjamin Boateng of Cornerstone Chapel, Assemblies of God, has cautioned.
He made the observation while discussing the impact of early parental loss at home, school and church on Nyansapo Fie, Plan B FM’s family, relationship and lifestyle programme, hosted by Akosua Gyamfua.
Rev. Boateng explained that while some consequences of parental loss are visible, others begin internally, leaving children feeling unprotected and uncertain about their future. He noted that some may begin to display younger behaviours, while others may be forced to assume adult responsibilities earlier than expected.
He urged teachers and foster parents to pay attention to changes in a child’s behaviour following the loss of a parent. According to him, comparing the child’s behaviour before and after the loss can help caregivers understand their emotional needs and provide appropriate support.
Rev. Boateng also highlighted the role of the church in helping grieving children cope with their loss, noting that prayer and the Word of God can provide spiritual comfort and guidance. He encouraged church leaders and members to visit affected families regularly, check on the children and show them care and compassion.
He stressed that consistent support from teachers, caregivers, church leaders and other community members can help children feel loved and secure as they adjust to life without a parent.
By: Lydia Owusu
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