Muhammad Hussain Acquah, a respected educator and religious leader, has advised Muslims to confess their sins directly to Allah, rather than to humans. As the Headteacher of T.I. Ahmadiyya Basic School in Tema and National Preaching Secretary of Ansarullah Ghana, Acquah’s words carry significant weight.
In a recent interview on Plan B FM’s social and lifestyle programme “Nyansapɔ Fie” with host Nana Asabea, Acquah explained that confessing to others, such as spouses or relatives, can potentially damage relationships and even encourage others to engage in similar behaviour. “If confessing to others like spouses and other relatives could mar the relationship and also encourage others to practice the same and later seek forgiveness, it is then discouraged in Islam,” he stated.
Acquah reiterated that some individuals are role models, and their confession of sins might inadvertently promote open sinning. “Some are role models to others, and seeing them confess to some sins rather encourages them and promotes open sinning; hence, the Holy Quran discourages it,” he added.
Mary Bright Abelenma Coffie, a fashion designer, youth counsellor, and Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) expert, shared her insights on the matter, emphasising that confessing requires divine wisdom to avoid causing harm or breaking down relationships.
“Worsening the bad mood of a partner with your confession could be disheartening,” she noted.
“Therefore, God’s face must first be sought so as not to break people down. Also, let your charisma be that of a relented soul to regain their trust, and you may also gain full healing and clear any ‘rubbish’ from your inward self.”
Acquah’s advice offers valuable guidance for Muslims seeking spiritual growth and forgiveness while navigating complex relationships. By prioritising direct confession to Allah, individuals can seek forgiveness and guidance while minimising potential harm to themselves and others.
By:Longman/Planbfmonline.com
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