Caregivers should give children who have lost a parent time to grieve instead of forcing themselves into the role of a replacement parent, Abrema May, an Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) Practitioner, has advised.
Speaking on Nyansapo Fie, Plan B FM’s family, relationship and lifestyle programme hosted by Akosua Gyamfua, Abrema May explained that the bond between children and their parents is unique, making it difficult for anyone to fill the gap left by a deceased parent.
She noted that attempts to force a replacement parental relationship may create resentment, as affected children need time to process their grief and adjust to their new circumstances.
She encouraged caregivers to focus on guiding, supporting and showing love to affected children rather than trying to replace their deceased parents. According to her, providing consistent care and patience can gradually help children build trust and accept the support available to them.
Addressing the role of schools, Abrema May cautioned against publicly announcing a child’s parental loss in front of other pupils, as this could cause emotional distress. She also advised teachers to be considerate when disciplining grieving children and to take their circumstances into account while providing appropriate guidance and support.
By: Lydia Owusu
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