A recent discussion on Plan B FM’s Nyansapɔ Fie show, hosted by Nana Asabea, highlighted the complexities of grief and its impact on faith. Lady Marilyn Abeka-Daniels, an adjunct lecturer at the University of Media, Arts and Communication’s Institute of Journalism (UNIMAC-IJ), shared her thoughts on the matter, stating that various forms of grief, including disenfranchised and accumulated grief, can lead individuals to question God’s goodness and supremacy.
According to Lady Marilyn, these types of grief can be overwhelming, causing people to doubt their faith and struggle with feelings of despair. She emphasised the importance of being mindful of one’s words during times of grief, as they can be powerful and hurtful. “Relatives of the grieving should give them space to process their emotions whilst ensuring they do not harm themselves or others,” she advised.
Prophet Ebenezer Dunamis, Head Pastor of Army of God Revival Centre, concurred, noting that pastors and servants of God are not immune to the pain of grief. He shared an example of a colleague pastor who was affected by the weight of his grief and highlighted the need for planning for the dependents of the deceased.
Lady Charlotte Hanson, Head of Public Relations Coordinating Division at the Information Service Department, encouraged individuals to find solace in scripture, particularly the Psalms, and to express their feelings genuinely to God. She referenced the biblical example of Jesus weeping, emphasising the importance of seeking comfort in God through scripture and prayer. She revealed that expressing feelings genuinely to God and finding solace in consolation songs and prayers can be therapeutic.
Sharing her experience, Lady Charlotte explained how her family found guidance and solace in consolation songs and prayers during the loss of her mother. This experience has given her hope for those navigating the complex and often painful journey of grief.
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